A Letter to My Sisters!
- realshepower
- Oct 21, 2020
- 2 min read
By Bobbie Watkins
I used to have a specific type that I was attracted too until I got married and then divorced after being with someone I love unconditionally for 16 years. I still love him but now I love him for him and not for what I wanted him to be. We must realize that great looks are simply what it is. It’s not going to get us through difficult times, low seasons, painful seasons, broke seasons, lost seasons, crazy seasons, stolen seasons, downtime seasons, insecure seasons, selfish seasons, incompetent seasons and anything else for that matter. People are great people but sometimes being great isn’t enough for who you are called to become. In order to capture my attention, you must have a heart aligned with mine. It must serve a deeper purpose that goes hand and hand with my destiny. You must be able to see my vision when I don’t. You must be able to pull me along the way when I can’t. You must be able to talk to God when I can’t. And, you better believe you will get that and plus some from me. God didn’t create us to be alone, but he wants us to wait until we’ve developed and have prepared for the blessing that he is giving us. In this season of my life, I pay attention more to what people say and do and not to judge them, but I use the information collected to decide on how to add them to my life. We all have flaws, but we must determine which flaws we can effectively align with our own. When someone depart my life, I trust that God will replace them with someone who better aligns with my life, my destiny, my downfalls and most importantly my children. So, if I have to wait another year, I’m okay with that. When you have children, loneliness doesn’t exist too long. Just because he admires you & chases you don’t mean he’s compatible. It just means he’s down to play the game. STOP DATING EVERY MAN YOU MEET! STOP ALLOWING YOUR KIDS TO CALL EVERY MAN YOU MEET DADDY! LET’S BREAK CYCLES & CURSES! Lust isn’t LOVE & LOVE isn’t lust!
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