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My Story

I, Rabiah Bhatia, single parent of two young kids have been staying with my parents since 2006. I have started believing in the untapped potential of every individual. I got married at the age of 19 and wanted to have a beautiful married life. Saw beautiful dreams for my married life, like other girls which remained as dreams only. I faced a lot of challenges after marriage, and there were times when I resented my life. Never thought that marrying at such a young age would not give me anything but only pain and suffering. I had seen times when there wasn't a single penny in my pocket, and I had to beg my husband and parents for the same. However, that begging turned into a curse for me.

How can I forget the day when I tried to finish this life without even thinking about my 1.5-year-old kid, as I found myself stuck in a negative environment. The thought of killing myself to end the recurring pain was all I had.

But I am thankful to my Ex Husband who saved me. Now if I think about that incident of my life, I feel I

was blessed to be saved for my two beautiful angels.

Eight years of my married experience was only a curse for me, but now if I look back, I feel it was all due to my past life karma. I have started believing about the Karma theory and truly support the fact that if we do good deeds, we create good fortune for us. I shifted from one city to another in 2006, and ever since then, I am living with my daughters and parents. It is all because I started believing in myself that my parents and brother became my most significant support since then.

I have understood that our happiness does not lie in anyone else's hand, but our hands only.

I believe about Good and bad karma now. My kids are a blessing for me as they support me through every thick and thin of my life. I started working here in Delhi (capital of India) and started earning for my kids. Though the salary I was getting, it was difficult for me to pay even my kids school fee in that amount however, with the help of my parents, I was able to manage that too. I worked for long hours until 2014 and could not spare time for my parents and daughters.

Then suddenly, one day, I stopped working with the corporate sector, thinking that I wasn't born for this. To work and earn. I started thinking about what is my actual aim in this life. All of a sudden, I concluded that I want to work for the future of the nation.

I want to do something which can help the students, children to grow and understand what life is, and they can achieve absolute happiness by achieving their goals. I started my journey of working for the Education sector in 2015. I worked for a school for 1.5 years and resigned. Still was not satisfied with my earnings as now I aimed to do something big for my kids too.

I got an opportunity to work as an HR & PR Head with one of the renowned School. I am a very creative

person and have always wanted to accomplish something related to Social Media and the Branding and

academic growth of the Education Sector and the students. I was delighted to grab the new opportunity. Worked there for about eight months, had to undergo many challenges and one beautiful day again thought of leaving the organisation as my self-respect is the utmost priority in my life.

Now here comes the actual start of my journey to make my own identity. I already got the kick start to

work as a PR for the Education sector, and that's how I started working as an Independent HR & PR

Facilitator for the Education sector and NGO. I started building my own identity and became an Educationist, Mentor and Life Coach too for Teachers, Students and Parents. Since then, I have not looked back into my past and have been growing with my progress. And have been earning well enough to raise my kids on my own.

I would like to share as to how I changed as a Human Being, my relationship karma and other aspects of my life. I feel that With love and patience, nothing is impossible. I have been polishing myself and making my human revolution. Now everyone will have a question as to what is "Human Revolution". Here is the answer, Human Revolution is nothing but changing yourself and polishing your character. As we all understand that we can't change others, but yes we can always improve ourselves, our perspective and our thinking, our mindset. We need to have a lot of patience in understanding the mindset of others. No one is wrong or bad, but their situations make them do such actions which are not right. We need to understand from their point of view. We should put ourselves in their shoes and then think wisely and take action accordingly for that person. When we change ourselves, we can change others because of our good behaviour & ethics. We can transform all kind of relationships by just helping others and not hurting anyone.

When we change, the world changes. The key to all change is in our inner transformation—a shift of our hearts and minds.

This, according to my understanding, is a human revolution. We all have the power to change. When we realise this truth, we can bring forth that power anywhere, anytime, and in any situation. I am trying to be more patient and humble with all the people around me which has made my relationships harmonious with even those people, who had hurt me sometime in the past. It is not about how others are or how society is. The most important thing is to ask yourself, "What should I do?" and "What can I do?" One who stands up with moral courage and conviction can change society and create waves of transformation around the world. This is what I believe.

Who is a leader, according to you? In my view, a leader is who never lose hope and give hope to others

too in their difficult times who have lost hope and in low life conditions, I always make sure that I motivate them that we can always change our karma in this life only if we start believing in ourselves and take responsibility for our actions. We must not, for one instant, give up the effort to build new lives for ourselves. Creativity means to push open the massive, groaning doorway to life. Nothing is impossible if we start believing in our prayers and the theory of good and bad karma. I had even expiated mine and my family's Health karma by only praying & helping others who were suffering from significant health issues. I created good karma for myself and my family, which helped me to overcome all the health issues. True health resides in having a positive attitude toward life and a healthy self that refuses to be defeated by anything. I have been operated several times in my 43 Years of life. Have undergone three surgeries but did not give up at all. It was the month of October last year when I had suffered one of my major Tongue surgery and was strictly advised by the Doctors not to speak for at least 15 days. However, on the 5th day of my surgery, I was discharged from the hospital. The challenge for me was not to speak at all for at least 15 days.

The key to battling illness lies in summoning a vigorous life-force and a positive fighting spirit.

It brings out the full effectiveness of a curative treatment. I did not lose hope and took rest for ten days and got back to work. There were many challenges during this phase of my Life as I was somewhere a bit worried about losing out some school projects as I was not able to work. Still, I was entirely in high life condition, which made me victorious and the management of all the schools understood my problem and gave me off from work to take good care of my health. This helped me overcome another challenge of my life and created a harmonious relationship with the School Owners and Heads. My both daughters have simultaneously undergone 7 to 8 surgeries; however, we can cope up with the health issues to that extent that there are no surgeries now. My mother has also undergone a lot of health issues and has undergone surgeries too, but I am happy to report that every time my mother has been protected due to some good karma we all have done.

I started fighting with my financial karma and prayed hard to earn so much so that I could take care of

my kids' studies and health and their daily expenses. I took up the Govt project of teaching the govt school kids for three months during the school summer vacations when it is hot. But I wanted to do something for those kids so that they can achieve their goals in the future. I wanted to share my skills with them for their growth and development. This is how I got their blessings and made my identity. Coming to my relationship karma, I feel that If you want to change another person, first change your own heart. When you change, others around you will change. This is how I have changed my relationship with those whom I once thought I would never talk in my life. I overcame this karma too and turned poison into medicine in my relationships with many people. I am determined to win in every sphere of my life and will never resent my life. The victories don't stop here. I am happy to share that now I have started working for an NGO where I contribute my skills in teaching them and helping them to become the right person of a good character.

Life contains the capacity, like flames that reach toward heaven, to transform suffering and pain into the

energy of creation, into light that illuminates the darkness. Like the wind traversing vast spaces unhindered,

Life has the power to uproot and overturn all obstacles and difficulties. Like clear flowing water, it can wash away all stains and impurities. This is how I have transformed my sufferings and pain into the power of spreading happiness around me, and I have been striving hard to spread joy everywhere.

My friends and family say that I have started shining like a sun as I always keep smiling whatever the scenario of my life is. I keep myself in high life condition and my advice is that never blame others for your pain or hurt or sufferings. It is our karma, and only we are responsible for all the problems in our lives. We should live with the mission of changing our negative karma into positive karma. We should not only pray for our happiness but for the bliss of others too.

We should always be thankful and full of gratitude for everything in our lives as the more challenges we face, the more we shall strive hard to work for others happiness and in turn, change ours as well as others circumstances. I am determined to win in every aspect of life and will keep working for happiness and welfare of society.

My mission in life is to inspire others with my lIfe so that they all should start believing in themselves, in working for others and in maintaining harmonious relationships with each other.

I & both my kids have been practising the life-changing Philosophy of Nichiren Buddhism for past 8

years which has changed our lives so mystically which I never thought. Let us join hands to work for the peace and welfare of society.

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